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Saturday, May 14, 2022

Looking Back

It confuses me that mothers who don't breast feed, today are are unable to make and process their baby milk. I just cannot understand why the old way is supposed to be so bad for the little ones. (At least until the shortage of store-bought is readily available again.) 

My first child was born in 1956. My doctor was a pediatrician. When I came home from a week in the hospital (yes, they kept new mothers a week at least) I was given a formula to make up to feed her. I had to prepare this about every other day and it was a joy to see how easily it was consumed. I knew she would be just fine as long as I was sure to prepare and have enough on hand at all times. A year later my first son was born, and within fifteen months my second son arrived. Two years after, my second daughter arrived and I had lots of formula-making experience. They thrived!  They all thrived! I worked during those years and still had time for the milk to be processed at home. It only took about an hour to make a batch. 

The formula, as I remember it quite well, was one can of evaporated milk, 2  1/2 cups of cold tap water, and two tablespoons of clear Karo syrup. The process was to mix it all together and pour into 6 bottles. Then the bottles were inserted into a wire rack that was put into a special deep pan and filled with water that went about halfway up the bottle. The lid was put on and it was to boil about 30 minutes. It was called a sterilizer. After the 30 minutes the wire rack containing the bottles was lifted up and out to cool before putting the pre-sterilized nipples on them. Refrigeration was important after this. In the beginning the nipples didn't have twist on caps and had tabs to stretch over the opening. If the baby didn't get milk fast enough to suit it, a sewing needle was held in flame and then poked hot into the rubber to make the hole larger. After a couple of years nipples with caps and bottles with threads were used. 

Well, I did some searching on the internet and found a picture of the first bottles I had — then found a sterilizer with updated bottles. I also found some information regarding this old method. Funny how all of my kids and my friends' kids all thrived on this. In the current emergency of expensive canned baby powdered formula being difficult to find why can't the old method temporarily alleviate the problem? My opinion is that many mothers are too stressed for time, too dependent on prepared items, too lazy, and/or too ignorant.

Here is what I read: "Regardless of which types of feeding a family chooses for a new baby, most people today would never ever give their infants evaporated milk or Karo syrup. Yet these kinds of recipes are precisely what many mothers were sent home with.

However, use of early formulas was dangerous since sterilization of baby bottles and nipples was not yet commonplace."


I beg to differ!  It was commonplace in the 50's! It was all I  knew.

Tuesday, March 15, 2022

You Can Bet on It!


I have noticed recently that there are many ads on TV showing how easy it is to bet on your phones! I don't remember seeing such ads in the past. There is even a number for people to call if they have a gambling addiction and need help!!!

WHAT in the world is happening here? It is awesome to me how people love the state lotteries and now they are encouraged to bet more with their phone apps!

To me it is like driving down the road and throwing $ out of the car window - never to see it again.

One time many years ago we went with another couple to a NJ casino and I got bold and put my Susan B. Anthony dollar coin in a slot machine. Well..... that machine pumped out $100.00 in coins and filled a large cup. Of course I was encouraged by others to try again. NOPE! I carried that cup around with me for the rest of the night and in the next week, deposited it into my small savings account.  That has reinforced my position that it would be easy to become addicted and how simple it would be.

Sorry folks, I just don't understand why people gamble. Guess it must be because I worked too hard to just throw my money away in the hopes of getting more free! 

I remember playing dozens of card games with friends and we never played for money. Only the game Monopoly made sense. Even at carnivals and boardwalks I could never drum up any desire to pay and play. 

Now I don't condemn others who gamble but it is their choice, just not mine, ever! I just DO NOT BET!

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Saturday, January 4, 2014

Upsetting Morning

Is it me or WHAT!!!  Today at Walmart, while shopping the aisles, there was a small child running loose and having a great time dragging his hand across the shelf contents, spilling and tipping and breaking things. WHAT? I just stopped and watched him and no one called or was hunting for him. At about 4 years old, where was his mother? Or father? Or babysitter? Or SOMEONE! He disappeared around the corner and by then others were just shaking their heads as much as I. My first instinct was to stop him and hold him, both to prevent more damage and to wait for his collection. I was afraid to do that. I was afraid to put my hands on someone else's child. Now I wonder what really would have happened. Times have changed. Was I a coward or smart?

Then, on the drive back home, I saw a young woman carrying a baby about four to six months old in her arms across a large parking lot at a fast pace. The baby was completely bare headed and its head was bobbing with each step. Mind you, we just about froze ourselves when we were loading groceries in the truck as the wind was strongly blowing and temperatures were just 8° when we arrived. Why didn't that child have a hat? What is wrong? Is it me? Mothers DO put hats on babies still, don't they? 

I was never an overprotective mother but I knew when kids needed to be supervised and when they needed a hat! There  - is it Wednesday so I can rant? Well, Wednesday or not, there is each extreme shown in parenting styles today in my point of view. Where is common sense? The children today are either overprotected or over scheduled or confined unreasonably or they are free as a breeze to do as they please with no protection or oversight at all. This is my first hand observation and I'm being judgmental and negative, BUT...

I'm still upset and it's no wonder I don't go out much to public places and mingle with the public. Restraint is not one of my best skills and it's a wonder I kept my mouth shut.

On the happier side, I looked back at old photos of me and my six young children from years ago and feel better. They are now wonderful parents and people and that's a fact.


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